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So you’ve finally decided to try an adult dating website… nice work! And we want you to be successful – that’s why we here at XXXBlackBook have put together some sure-fire tips on how to make the most of your time here. Whether you’re looking to date, hook-up, cheat or anything else that tickles your fancy, we’ll show you how to do it with style and finesse. So start browsing those sex personals and remember the following steps:

1. Know what you’re getting. So what if it’s a little shallow. You should insist on seeing a recent picture (taken in the past year) of the person you’re interested, and it shouldn’t look like it was taken from a few miles distance. When you know what you’re getting upfront, you won’t be in for any unexpected surprises when you meet in person or on Video Chat.

2. Your profile pictures. If you expect the members on adult dating sites to have good pictures, be sure you’re bring something to the table too. Not to worry if you don’t have one – get a friend to take a few or grab your cell and shoot away. And it’s a fact – experts say that you’re 15 times more likely to get a response if you post a quality photo of yourself.

3. Save your privates for a private time. Your face is a lot more attractive than your junk, so put that out front, and hold back a little mystery for when you make contact. Save the pictures of your privates for Public or Private photo albums. Being greeted by your peen or va-jay-jay is a lot for some people to take – even on an adult dating website.

4. Stand out. There are thousands of sex personals out there, and by using a unique and well-thought-out tag line and profile, you can stand out.  Take this opportunity to sell yourself and prove why you’re such a great person to hook up with. Don’t forget to spell check it before you post it – misspelled words and improper grammar are a turn-off!

5. Be polite. Just because this is an adult dating website, it doesn’t mean that you should forget your manners. Throw some good ol’ fashioned woo around and see what sticks. Remember – flattery will get you everywhere while being rude will get you shot down – and fast.

6. Don’t put your eggs in one basket. There are plenty of fish in the sea, so don’t be afraid to contact several people at once. Just look at all the sex personals out there, so take the time to look around.

7. Make a move. Don’t be afraid to make the first move on an adult dating site. Self-confidence is sexy, and by contacting someone first, you’re giving them an ego boost – and who isn’t flattered by that?! Now, get out there and make us proud!